My husband and I went to a baseball game recently. Listening to the National Anthem brought back a memory from grade school. The experience turned out to be one that probably shaped my life more than I thought.
I was in 5th or 6th grade. The teacher gave us an assignment for the next day: learn “The Star Spangled Banner.” I was more than a little concerned—that’s four long verses! When I got home and told Mom, she told me I’d better start working on it. After supper, she helped me. By the time I went to bed, I had the entire anthem memorized. I didn’t really understand all of it, but I had the words memorized, and in the right order.
At school the next day, the teacher called on my classmates to recite the song. One by one they went to the front of the class and recited anywhere from a few words to a few lines. A couple may have recited the first verse. That was it!
I remember wondering what I should do. I knew the entire anthem. That was the assignment and so that’s what I did. Part of me thought I should stand up and demonstrate what I had done and what I knew.
But part of me wanted to belong. I didn’t want to stand out from everyone. I didn’t want to be different. It would be easy to recite less than what I knew—maybe one verse. That would be a good compromise, wouldn’t it? Demonstrate some of my knowledge while not being too different.
I still hadn’t decided what to do when the teacher called my name. As I was walking to the front of the class, though, I decided to do it. I had spent the entire evening learning it, Mom had spent time helping me, why shouldn’t I show what I knew?
When I finished all four verses, there was a brief silence (and I thought, “Oh no! What did I do?!”) and then wild clapping.
My classmates didn’t care that I learned more than they did. They weren’t going to shun me for that. It was all good!
I think it is good to show what we know. If we don’t, no one will know except us. And others need to know if we are going to succeed. I have since learned that it’s important to be respectful, to use a certain amount of courteousness and tact at times, but don’t be afraid to show what you know.